Posts Tagged ‘Work Life Balance’

7 Benefits of Working Collaboratively for Life Balance

Wednesday, December 7th, 2011

Christmas is a great time to reflect on what we have to be grateful for over the past year, what has worked and what we would like to do more of.

My partner Lynne and I set the intention two years ago to work easy.  Since then we have worked collaboratively to teach people how to release their emotional baggage quickly and easily, giving them back their life.

Working collaboratively has been invaluable for both of us in our business. The benefits we have received are as follows:

Less Money

I knew I needed to do more to promote my coaching practice but believed I would need to invest more money to do so.  Working together we combined our resources for Maestro Conferences and Constant Contact to promote our businesses.  Plus we invested in the development of the www.workeasy4lifebalance.com blog.

Saves Time

We joined forces to collaboratively promote our businesses by jointly writing a monthly newsletter and blog articles.  In less than an hour each month we were able to quickly outline each month’s newsletter.  Developing the articles felt like a breeze. Plus jointly developing and delivering our Emotional Hot Button Removal Workshops, rather than competing, saved both of us a lot of time.

Creativity and Productivity

Working together we came up with more creative ideas to promote our services. Instead of struggling on our own through the process of coming up with ideas for articles, in conversation knowledge that we want to share freely flows out of us. We decided to start the free monthly Catalyst LIVE! tele-call to share our expertise for living magical lives with listeners.  Working collaboratively greatly increased productivity as well as enhancing the quality of ideas generated.

Learning

We each have unique talents and strengths that we can share as partners. I always learned something from Lynne who has spent 20 years exploring spirituality in both formal and informal learning settings.  I bring a vast knowledge of business to our relationship that Lynne can draw from for her business and to support her clients who are entrepreneurs.

Support

Mastermind partners are a huge source of support.  This is especially true for Lynne and I as we are both coaches.  We use our coaching skills to support each other’s personal growth and business development; especially if either of us is emotionally triggered. We are able to use our unique coaching techniques to bring our emotional reactions to completion and keep moving forward. I know I have certainly benefited from all the coaching that Lynne has provided me.

Accountability

Our agreement to meet regularly every Monday morning has kept us on track to keep building our businesses. Our commitment to one another has been invaluable to take on new challenges.  Over the last year I was very dedicated to writing my book “Divine Divorce” and without our scheduled meetings it would have been very easy to lose my focus on the promotion and development of my business and to let our workshops lapse.  Most of our business meetings start with a check in, allowing us to clear anything that might keep us from being at the top of our game.  Our partnership has kept both of us focused on all aspects of our business.

Fun

Finally, another intention we set was to have fun and do work that we love. This way work would feel easy rather than hard. By bouncing ideas off each other we inspire each other, giving us more energy to pour into our work and life. We have fun, get things done with ease, and produce better work together than either one of us could have done on our own.

Working together really has made our lives easier and given us life balance. Who could wish for anything more for their life than inspiring work they love and a sense of balance in their life?

Who could you work more collaborative with?

 

A Love Meditation for Total Life Balance

Sunday, February 13th, 2011

This was given to me many years ago by a travelling spiritual teacher. It resonated for me then and still does today,

Wishing you much love in your life,
Lynne

LOVE MEDITATION

Deep at the center of my being there is an infinite well of love. I now allow this love to flow to the surface. It fills my heart, my body, my mind, my consciousness, my very being and radiates out from me in all directions and returns to me multiplied. The more love I use and give, the more I have to give; the supply is endless. The use of love makes me feel good. It is an expression of my inner joy.

I love myself…
therefore I take loving care of my body. I lovingly feed it nourishing food and beverages, I lovingly groom and dress it, and my body lovingly responds to me with vibrant health and energy.

I love myself…
therefore I provide for myself a comfortable home, one that fills all my needs and is a pleasure to be in. I fill the rooms with the vibration of love so that all who enter, myself included, will feel this love and be nourished by it.

I love myself…
therefore I do work that I truly enjoy, using my creative talents and abilities, working with and for people who I love and who love me and earn a good income.

I love myself…
therefore I behave and think in a loving way to all people for I know that that which I give out returns to me multiplied. I only attract loving people in my world for they are a mirror of myself.

I love myself…
therefore I forgive and totally release the past and all past experiences and I am free.

I love myself…
therefore I love totally in the now, experiencing each moment as good and knowing that my future is bright, joyous and secure for I am a beloved child of the universe and the universe lovingly takes care of me now and forever more.
And so it is

Walking our Talk with Working Easy

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010
Watching the Coast Guard work while we work.

Watching the Coast Guard work while we work.

Beyond publishing this blog we really are committed to working easy 4 life balance.

If you’ve been following our posts you’ve probably noticed that we like having fun too.  Sometimes this means being flexible and doing things outside the box of running a business.  When we formed our strategic alliance we decided to have  regular meetings, and we’ve been really consistent at sticking to our commitment. It’s such a wonderful way to hold ourselves accountable and stimulate creative synergy.  It’s way more fun than having an internal meeting with me, myself and I.

We usually have our meetings on the phone, which requires each of us to be in our offices – or not….  sometimes one of us is on a cell phone, travelling in another city, or country.  As long as one of us is on the computer to record pertintent notes it works beautifully.  The other day I had another meeting scheduled not long after our call, but it was a 1.5 hr commute away.  I pulled out my blue tooth headset jumped in the car and we continued our meeting.  It was an extraordinarily productive brainstorming session and we mapped out the next steps for our strategic alliance for the coming months.

What was really interesting to me, is my commute time is usually very unproductive, other than getting me where I need to go.  I often get brainwaves for building the business, but seldom record the ideas.  The better ones will run in the background of my consciousness, adding to the internal to do list and then to the heap of things not done.  Ever notice how we can conjure up far more activity in our imagination than we can ever accomplish in real time?

Anyway, what was exceptional about this drive, was Jacque was on the other end of the phone, to capture our creative ideas.  We now have topics for speaking engagements, the next few issues of our newsletters and Catalyst-LIVE radio shows .  And it was all incredibly easy and fun!

I highly recommend working collaboratively, or having a business building buddy.  It really does make work easier.

Winning the Game of Work and Life

Thursday, March 11th, 2010

In a blog this morning  I read the famous Michael Gerber quote, “don’t work in your business, work on your business.”  What if  your business was a game?   How would that change how you related to the whole concept of working in your business?   How about your life, could you play it like a game?

  • What would your game be called?
  • What would your game board or playing field be like?
  • Who would be playing the game with you?
  • What would the rules be?
  • How would you define winning?

Exciting.  I love playing games.

This weekend I did just that, played the game of defining my Personal Life Game.  I went to California to play The Game Of ….  – Playing the Game You are Build 4  — See web site http://bit.ly/9yMFUY

The process was fun and creative and totally felt like playing.   I came out of the weekend with a  game plan for all of the above questions and more.  So how do I use the information that I have uncovered?

I am using it to clearly define how I want to show up in this world, who do I want to be and how do I want to experience the world.  It gives more clarity on the Intention that I had set for myself last year  – see article on setting intentions -http://bit.ly/c0jBzw .

I have already used the insights that I have gained in making decisions.  I am in the process of looking for accommodations to rent in Belize for this fall when I take my business fully virtual for 3 months.  It became evident that the accommodations that I was looking at renting would have suited me perfectly from a logistical point of view. In the past this would have signaled me to say “yes”.   However my intuition signaled to me that the tone of the living environment would have been the opposite of the fun, vibrant life that I want to live.  Just by playing my game, I would have pushed my land lady’s fear buttons, causing an emotional reaction leading to conflict.

This was not the kind of experience that I defined for winning the game of my Personal Life. I listened to my intuition and said” no” and I am continuing on my search.

In your business when are you making decisions about what you need to do because it seems to make good logical sense?  Yet  it  creates an experience that you would prefer not to be having.   This is typically what happens when we work in our business rather than working on it.   We are creating experiences for ourselves that do not leave us winning.

This fall I will bring The Game Of…  to Vancouver.   Check the web site above for other games being played in the United States.

May you win and master your own game.

Jacque

Work Easy Interview with Cindi Pree, Virtual Business Partner

Friday, February 26th, 2010

Upon meeting Cindi Pree of the Kulshan Group it was quickly apparent we shared similar views on working easy for life balance. Having started and operated a few businesses, she now shares her knowledge and expertise as a Virtual Business Partner. Visit Cindi at www.kulshangroup.com

Here’s her story.

Working Easy is huge for Cindi, but it hasn’t always been the case. A one-time home school mom, on top of all the usual routines, she, “spent many years running – berating myself for not getting enough done. That’s not working easy.”

After a divorce she decided to find a happier life, and came to understand there was a healthier way to work and live too.  Her search led her to meditation and spirituality. Jill Bolte Taylor’s “My Stroke of Insight” showed her how being disconnected from her right brain was tied into working hard. She gave herself permission to play – meditate, paint, even do nothing.

Cindi realized it wasn’t necessary to be frantic to be productive and she wasn’t going to do it anymore.

Past work with realtors working east coast hours and weekends, made Mondays hell. We worked frantically for 3 days to catch up, she says.  “Eventually I recognized a pattern though; we were always caught up by Wednesday and she developed a new mind set.  “It’s going to be OK,” she would tell herself and her staff.

Studying the teachings of Abraham she learned that time is a perception, it’s a human construct. The way we divide up the day is made up.  We have all kinds of time; it’s how we use it that counts. She alludes to Steven Covey’s Big Rock story. We need to decide what our big rocks are. “For me it used to be getting the work done. Now the priority is how I feel when I am working.  I continuously check in, moment to moment, and ask how it feels?”

Now if she puts in a long day it’s because she has done her ‘gut check’ and she’s doing it because she wants to, not because someone says she should or has to.

When asked what supports her in working easy she says, “It’s really important to know your strengths and weaknesses – analyze your work style and make sure what you’re doing works for you. Because I’m a linear person I look at and incorporate tools, systems and procedures, and create short cuts.”

Drawing on Lean Manufacturing, Kaizen and 6 Sigma principles, she strives for efficiency.  She asks Five Whys: ask yourself why you are doing something five times and you’ll get to the core of it.  If your answer is ‘because this is the way I’ve always done it’, or ‘because someone told me to’ there is likely room for change.

She looks for ways to be productive, “If I am more productive here, then I have more time to play!”

She always asks, “Does it benefit me? Is there a better way? Is there a better tool?  If I’m using a tool, am I using it the best way?” Fewer mouse clicks to complete a task shaves off time. Even if it’s a few hundredths of a second it adds up every time you repeat it

Are you sending the same kind of documents often? Create templates. Looking for the same website over and over again? Make shortcuts. If you are reaching across the desk to grab something many times a day, move it to where it is handy. Keep visual clues, and use color coding to track projects.

Cindi’s recommendation: “Get in the habit of finding something to change before you start each day. Once you start doing this and you see the increased ease you will find more and more ways to streamline. Even after all the years I’ve been doing this I still find myself asking why I’m doing things a particular way.”

She also recommends spending a little money to have someone show you how to use the tools you have efficiently. We get bombarded by new tools all the time, but we don’t need to run out and buy them all. Bottom-line: A mind set of looking for ease has to come first, otherwise implementing the time-saving real world stuff just leaves room to fill up with a longer ‘to do’ list.

I tried Cindi’s tip of starting my day with changing something.  I really like this and plan to continue!

Lynne