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Random Acts of Kindness

Thursday, December 2nd, 2010
The Beach in front of Ruby's Hotel

The Beach in front of Ruby's Hotel

Video:  Random Acts of Kindness

I was in  San Pedro, Belize for 4 days and I was the recipient of numerous random acts of kindness.  It appears that it just part of their culture here in Belize.

The random acts of kindness started with Island Divers who I did my scuba diving lessons with last year.  I had kept in contact with my dive instructor and when I showed up at the office, Rudy the owner immediately starting thinking of who he knew that might have apartments for rent.  When I came with a list of people to call who had placed advertisements in the local paper, Rudy was more than happy to let me use his phone.

I spent the rest of that day being toured around from apartment to apartment.  I viewed the full range of housing from tourist grade condo’s tol third world apartments for the locals.  Some were possible options and others were out of the question.  I waited to find out if I would be accepted at a couple of the tourist grade places, because they normally only accept a 6 month rentals and I am planing on staying for 3 months.

The next morning when I woke up in my third floor hotel room, which has a big deck over looking the ocean, I felt how grateful I was for all the help that I was receiving.  Plus I realized that I could stay put in this hotel room if necessary.  My room at Ruby’s is clean, I am safe and I have some friends who are helping me.  Plus I have 3 decks to choose from for my office depending upon how much shade I need.  What more did I want, I was in heaven.

I already have my local cheap and good restaurants where I am a regular client.  Coming home from breakfast that morning two guys who do condo sales for Captain Morgans started chatting with me.  Before I knew it they had commandeered a golf cart, the local mode of transportation here, and were touring me around to every property management place they could think of.  They called ahead to people to find out who might have space available.  They found me a brand new apartment about a mile out of town, which was a great option and the owner was willing to rent it right away.

First I wanted to speak to Bob from Coral Beach Reality who had showed me a place the previous day.  It turned out his client did not want to accept a shorter term rental.  Bob however had heard about an apartment in a building where a friend of his lived.  Bob picked up the phone and tracked down the owner and then drove me over to meet the owner.  The owner had wanted to do some work on the apartment and didn’t really have it on the rental  market, but it was perfect for me.  It was at the far end of town so it would be easy for me to walk to the stores and to the local bar to go dancing on Saturday.  And it is just outside of the hustle and bustle of  the main part of town, plus from my deck I can see the ocean as it only 2 buildings away from the beach.  It was perfect and I took it on the spot.

What was in it for all these people to help me?  Nothing other than the joy that it brought to their hearts to undertake a random act of kindness for a Canadian woman wanting to write a book in the sunshine.  These people have shown me how to open my heart even more to be generous and helpful just because I can.

Definition of Consciousness

Tuesday, February 2nd, 2010

I  just read a very eloquent definition of consciousness in Appendix #2 of a posting on the Tao Mission.   The link is below.

http://en.wordpress.com/tag/tao-mission/

I have used the word conscious many times, but I have never seen such a thorough and thought provoking definition of what it means to be conscious.  This definition provides me with a great way to live into my life — a way for me to be mindful as I live each day.

It is an especially great place for me to check in when I am in doubt about how I want to handle a situation.   Am I thinking and behaving in a way that is conscious?  Or am I hooked by my emotions or my ego into reacting from a place of my past conditioning.   It gives me an opportunity to consciously decide who I want to be.

Jacque

What another culture can show us

Saturday, January 16th, 2010
Santa Teresa Village, Belize

Santa Teresa Village, Belize

A recent holiday in Belize gave me an opportunity to how another culture relates to work. Part of the holiday included visiting the village of our Mayan guide, Pedro. His village is nestled into an area that his people have carved out of the jungle. We met his family and another Mayan family prepared lunch for us.

In this village people live in houses made out of boards, thatched roofs and most of the dwellings had mud floors. Most families earn a living by farming. Each year on a rotating basis they cut down 3 or 4 acres of the jungle and plant their crops of rice, beans and corn. There is no doubt that these people work hard just to live.

I was reading a book on this trip called “Spiritual Warfare” by Jed McKenna. One of his points was that there is no “good” and “bad”, there just is. As a result of meeting these people I started to ponder the following questions:
• Do they work harder than us?
• Are these people worse off than us?
• Or is it just different?
• Do they have something that we don’t have?

We were on a river kayaking trip and spent three nights out in the jungle. I spent many hours talking with our Mayan guides. I came to the following conclusions:
• Yes physically they work harder than most of us, but not psychologically and emotionally.
• In my opinion, stress is not a major part of their life.
• It is just different.
• They have very open hearts and the simple things in life bring them a significant amount of joy. I know I had lost the experience of simple pleasures and I think there are a lot of other people like me.

I am not sure that our conditioning to work hard to have a better life is working out. The problem is that we are working hard and at the same time we are too stressed out to feel joy for the amazing abundance that we have in our lives.

Through the work I did, I changed this in my life, so I know it can be done and others can do it too.

Jacque Small
www.catalystcoach.ca
www.swingintoleadership.com

Life is too short to work hard!

Wednesday, January 13th, 2010

When I came to the realization somewhere back in my twenties that I would be working to make a living for a good chunk of my life I decided that work should be fun. So I set out to find a career I enjoyed. The work I’ve done since has varied, with each career change bringing me closer to realizing my aspiration.

So what makes work fun? For me it’s doing things I enjoy. Initially I wanted to explore creativity and worked in media production. The creative process and intense schedules were exciting. I enjoyed the many learning curves as technology advanced and brought new challenges, but after awhile it got tiring. Next, I focused my attention on personal development outside of my career. I wanted to express my new spiritual ideals through work, but found that a little challenging. For a while I simply used my creativity to manifest work situations that served my financial and professional development needs. Now as a business coach, I get to share my creativity, my spiritual values, help others manifest their highest aspirations and I am fulfilled.

Fulfillment is what makes work easy and fulfillment is recognizing what brings us alive, what makes life meaningful, knowing what we value. When we are fulfilled, we like being engaged in the associated activities. If we are not fulfilled, it feels like a chore. For example, when I am having a meaningful conversation with a client that is helping them move forward in their business I am totally engaged and loving what is happening. It’s rewarding to me when they accomplish their goals and I empathize and aid in their learning when things don’t go as expected. I feel blessed to share the journey with them.

Through my own journey I’ve come to appreciate that each of us has a vocation that we are naturally suited to. The gifts and we are born with, the talent we develop and the skills we learn, combined with our passion, purpose and values add up to a unique way that we each make a contribution in our world through work. It’s not always immediately apparent to us though. We are cultured to value only what we have to work hard for. Yet because our greatest talents come to us easily we take them for granted, assuming everyone else has them too.

When we are finally able to shed the limiting beliefs and conditioning that keeps us from fully expressing our passion and using our greatest gifts, our hearts start to sing. Our true vocation is bliss. Work is easy and life becomes balanced. Many of the entrepreneurs I have the priviledge to work with are brilliant examples of this principle. I look forward to sharing some of thier stories with you.

Lynne Brisdon, PCC